We have good relations with your husband’s mother is hard! It takes work, I know! But if you put in May will get to really appreciate my mother-in-law. Her softer, kinder side may emerge and you may even avoid the repeat daughter-in-law zings that we all experience from time to time (some of us more than others!) Error # 1 – Forget to Call Your Mother-in-law on a regular basis – you’ll be amazed how much it cost when you keep in touch with her, not just when your husband calls! We strive to have independent relations and call her at least once a week. You can keep it short or when the purpose of Bingo and leave a message on her machine! Error # 2 – often forget to ask your mother-in-law to feel – I have to do this every time I see or talk to her. As added touch, offer to accompany the doctors visits whenever possible. She will appreciate that he took time to care. Error # 3 – Do not compliment her often enough – I always feel good about themselves. Say how beautiful, slim, healthy, young, and she looks like. They say that what we wear flattering clothes, sometimes wondering if he could borrow a piece of clothing or handbag. Mention that I love her hair, even if it carries insert (especially if it carries wigs!) Error # 4 – Forget Your mother-in-law is a special day – Your husband will probably forget, so one must be to make sure this gets done, no exceptions! For her birthday, Mother’s Day and other important holidays, choose a Hallmark card with the most heart-wrenching feeling you can find. Make sure your spouse signs it too. Better yet, let him write a note of both. Error # 5 – Get Your Mother with a defensive-in-law – This is the easiest mistake to make, but do yourself favor and practice not taking things personally. If you find yourself getting defensive with your mother-in-law to take a deep breath – then another – and to make a call, modest comment – then make some chamomile tea. Be sure to give your mother-in-law and a glass – and make sure that you are her favorite tea bags on hand at all times. Error # 6 – Do not be objective when your mother-in-law to criticize – if your mother-in-law says her hair looks better the other way, to thank her enthusiasm by the firm agreeing that it is difficult to be objective about yourself. And the style is so, and she is visiting. Of course, you can change it when he leaves, although it is open to the possibility that she may actually have a point! Error # 7 – Ask your mother-in-law for professional advice – This is a real no-no, because if you try to gain approval, no! If you do not try to gain support for his new pampered chef opportunities you’ve been thinking, and it reduces the importance of your enthusiasm, simply says: “Oh, you are so right. I’m going to give this pattern another crazy idea! ” Then, to Its birthday and Christmas gifts with 40% discount you get a new job. Error # 8 – Expect Your mother-in-law to share your interests – your mother-in-law will appreciate the film, music, books or TV shows you enjoy. While at home she may even decree, “As you can see” It’s so stupid. ” Rather than defend his party of choice, simply reply something to the effect, “That is so true! Then fluff your pillow and remove the hide until it goes. Error # 9 – Do not save the gifts of mother-in-law for at least a year – when your mother-in-law gives a gift, make sure to show visible in your house, or when a bear around. If this is not your cup of tea, do not get rid of him. There is nothing more humiliating than not being able to produce what can search over-hasty wedding again! Error # 10 – Recruitment gifts for your mother-in-law – the best way to deal with the gift that your husband is not buying. Even if the responsibility for the holiday shopping usually ends at the shoulders, give him the award of this one thing – it will be worth your time to make sure they follow through! Every bit of this philosophy is designed to make deep and positive progress in your life, intensifying the level of happiness, and help you live far more peacefully with her husband and mother in law.